So here it goes;
Are you a boob man, leg man or a butt man and does this influence the way you dress?
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This is a bit tangented, you have been warned ;)
Typical me - body-con dress and long hair. |
When I was younger ie sub 22 years, it was all about the boobs.
As I got older I started finding more and more appreciation for the ladies deriere. (I went posh again). Then legs, then tiny wasits, slender but curved neck lines... I think a lot of people appreciate more and more features as they age.
(I'm about to sound like I believe that the person behind the body is irrelevant, but if anything it's equally if not more important.)
But I think it's just far better to look at the overall package ie; how do her hips relate to her shoulders?
How narrow is her waist in relation to her bum and boobs?
What are her legs like and how much of her overall height do they account for?
Pretty cold way to look at women, but this is only part of the admiration I have for women, I just want to make that clear :) I view women to be beautiful complex people and most of them have beautiful qualities that may not be aesthetic.
However, analyzing the ideal female form, (or at least my opinion of the ideal form), in this way definitely changes how I dress and how I present my body.
I dress in clothes I see women of the 'ideal form' wearing, particularly when I like the style.
I'm a sucker for dresses and skirts because I view these to be the most feminine attire that's easy to wear. ie no stylish playsuits - Nightmare to go to the toilet with (My wife tells me so LOL).
I tend to wear my hair fairly long as I find the shorter a ladies hair is, the less 'feminine' I view them to be in general (exceptions are out there though, some girls pull it off easily, but I find that far too many just make bad decisions). I do however wear a shorter brown wig sometimes when I feel like an outfit might look better with it (being a CD can be so convenient)
Note - 50's theme, but shows off my artificial curves. |
I would also like to try hip/butt padding, but I am put off because I think I would find it more of a hindrance than a help when sitting down.
I like the emulation stuff as long as it doesn't get in my way. (although I did learn to type okay in nails... this gets me thinking, maybe I need to delve into padding?)
Given all this I like to wear clothes that 'show off' my reasonable level of emulation to their fullest, so it's usually a body-con dress, a peplum, skinny jeans or leggings with a nice top....
But something else I'd love to try is a nice 50's style swing dress with a little bit of cleavage and a fitted waist with a cheeky petticoat underneath (I'm loving the rockabilly/retro style thing at the moment).
I would love to get something like this. |
But it comes from a place of absolute worship of women, my wife will always be the only one for me, but I dress to look my absolute best because I get dressed once a week, not every day.
It's okay for people to go out for the night looking their absolute best once a week, so I believe its also fine for me to look my feminine best.
I also don't like getting dressed up in drab mode most of the time. I just feel like women get the better deal when it comes to glamming up and changing how they look, with only the aid of clothes and makeup, hairstyles, nails, shoes... everything I love the most about dressing.
Some may find this to mean I dress for sexual reasons, a sort of narcissism. Hmm, perhaps,
but I don't focus too much on this because that's not who I am.
Remember, if you dress for 'how you feel your best', it's never a bad thing.
If you work hard to look as feminine as you can, and you feel your absolute tip-top best for your labors, then you can wear what you like (within reason - haha)
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Well there it was. Thanks for having a look.
I enjoyed this because I found it to be therapeutic to lay out some truths.
Thanks for reading, if you have any comments or questions, just ask in the comments below.
TTFN
Samantha xx